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So I'm watching this movie and I start thinking, its so hard for me to believe that a guy wouldn't want to watch his girlfriend make-out/have sex with another chick.(And vice versa, I'm not being sexist here. That goes for girls wanting to watch their boyfriend make out with another dude) Is this just me being a giant weirdo? Idk. My husband would PAY MONEY and...Idk, I probably would too. lol

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Some people have stronger jealousy streaks than others, and not sexyfuntimes ones. *shrug* I may not share it, but I've seen it. And when people aren't built that way, it can get ugly fast.

I know, right? It just boggles my mind. I was even discussing it with a guy friend of mine once, I don't remember how it came up, and he didn't come right out and say anything, but I could tell he was uncomfortable with it even though he thought the idea was hot. The odd thing was, on this movie I was watching, the dude was willing to let her sleep with another guy (he was also sleeping with a different chick, it was a group sex thing) but he FREAKED out when she started flirting with their waitress. I mean, freaked out, thought she was going to turn lesbian and leave him and have all kinds of lesbian babies with this girl. CRAZYCAKES. The movie was Sex and Breakfast - I don't recommend lol.

I'm definetely one with a stronger jealousy streak. So while I am all for the appeal of two guys making out, my boyfriend better not kiss anybody other than me - no matter of male or female.

Definitely understood! In this instance, I definitely feel like I'm the weird one, *not* having a problem with it. That's okay, I'm weird and I know it, lol.

I'm not sure if this is a case of anybody being the weird one. I think it's more that people are different. And apparently, you are a lot more secure in yourself and in your marriage than I could ever hope to be, I'm afraid. Bundle of trust issues, that's me. :/

I used to be. I don't know what happened or what changed - my husband and I are high school sweethearts, so that's part of it. Neither of us really had a chance to explore things, so to speak. I've got lots of other bundles of issues, just in different places. :p

Well, at this point in life, I have the feeling that everybody has some kind of bundle of issue. Still, always good to know, I'm nozt the only crazed one. :)

Yeah, I know what you mean. I have kind of the same problem with being bi. I truly do not understand how straight or gay people are attracted only to a single sex. Like, I just don't get it. I try to put myself in their position, and it's just like "But... but... everybody's so pretty! Come on!"

Totally the same way. I'll make inappropriate comments about girls sometimes around people without even thinking about it, thinking that everyone is going to agree with me. I can't even EXPLAIN how much is just bugs me to no end that my husband can't even say another dude is attractive looking. IMO everyone's a little gay, it just takes some people longer to figure it out. :p

Ohh you're not a weirdo. I told one of my old boyfriends once that if he wanted me to kiss/makeout with another girl he had to kiss/makeout with another guy. And since we know how guys are he would not do it at all.

I guess for guys the idea of making out with another guy is so OVER THE LINE but as females we should just be open to making out with another girl because it's enjoyable to them.

Yeah, that really pisses me off! Silly boys. :p

I don't think I'd have a problem with it as long as I knew. No going behind my back stuff. Are you having more White Collar fic ideas?

Oh definitely nothing behind the back, I'm talking only about consensual-ness here. Doesn't White Collar give everyone those kind of thoughts? ;) I mean, they're trying so hard...

I wouldnt like to see my hubby have sex with another man to be honest! lol

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